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Ignorance of CPS
December 2, 2007 permalink
The following letter to an advice columnist is a mild story of CPS intervention. The reply shows that among professionals, including reporters, there is still a high level of ignorance and naiveté about child protectors. One of the preconditions for reform is getting the truth out about child protection.
Since you asked ...
Somebody sent child protective services to my house!
An anonymous complaint brought a scary visitor with a list of accusations.
By Cary Tennis
Nov. 30, 2007 | Dear Cary,
I have an unusual problem that is really hurting me. About two months ago, a worker from the child protection agency in my town appeared on my doorstep. She told me she had received a report about me and my child and was investigating. She came in and read off the accusations. I was reeling and in shock. Someone associated with my small church had sent in a complaint anonymously. The accusations were ridiculous and untrue except for one. My child had kicked another child whom my child was really upset with. This child was jealous and had been teasing a lot, but his parents weren't aware of it. This incident was reported in detail to the agency with the statement that "she didn't care about it," which is, of course, untrue. I was really upset about the kicking and talked to my child about how we settle differences, and then I took away a planned play date. We talked to the parents and I thought the matter had been settled.
I had to furnish names of people who could vouch for my parenting and I gave two friends from church. I also talked to the minister, who is very new to our church and to other church leaders. Everyone I've talked to is shocked and supportive and no one has any idea who could have done this or why.
The mother of this boy grew increasingly distant and angry after this incident and then refused to speak to my child and me at all. They quit coming to our church soon after. This family didn't have many close friends as they are hard to get along with and didn't come very often. Their child didn't have friends at the church either except for my child. We had been very good friends at one time.
I could tell from the worker's demeanor that the charges weren't going to go anywhere but I still haven't heard from the agency. I could be in for a surprise but I seriously doubt it. No one at the church has been contacted by the agency, but the worker had already visited my child and the school counselor before she came to my door. There were no concerns at the school and my child handled herself well so far as I can tell. It's a real nightmare to have this happen.
My problem is that I don't know for sure who did this. If it is this family, they aren't at my church anymore and probably aren't going to be much of a threat in the future. If it's not this family, then it's someone from my church and that is very scary as we are active at the church. We're still going to the church and participating in selected activities. I've curtailed some of my child's activities to lessen the chance that someone might observe something that can be twisted around to look damaging. Other than this mother, I've had no conflicts with anyone else in this town and neither has my child.
What is the most prudent thing for me to do? What is the psychological profile of someone who would do something like this to a child and his mother? Is it likely to be someone I've had a conflict with or a relative stranger?
Thank you so much. I think you give very thoughtful responses to people.
Pretty Good Mom
Dear Pretty Good Mom,
You're telling me that an employee of the state, acting on an anonymous accusation, visited your child and your child's school counselor, and then came into your house and read you a list of accusations made by someone associated with your church. Then you were required by law to furnish a list of people who could vouch for your parenting.
Your letter inspires great outrage. Where is this place? Who are these people?
I couldn't live in a town like that!
But here's what a reasonable citizen might do. A reasonable citizen might go to the agency and ask for a meeting with the caseworker and the caseworker's boss. I would want to learn as much as I could, not about who made this particular complaint, but about how such a system operates. Does it happen often that people are referred in this way? What are the procedures? What records are public and what are private? What is the agency's funding? What is its charter? Who makes decisions about who is hired and fired?
Now, of course our society has to protect children. There are some truly evil people out there.
But I would want to know if I, too, could simply make a complaint about someone at random and cause a case worker to go visit them and scare the living daylights out of them. I would ask them to show me the form and the process by which I could make such an anonymous complaint. I would ask them how they determine the credibility of such a complaint. Must a person making a complaint appear in person, or could such a complaint be made in writing or over the phone? Must the person furnish identification? Are records kept of the person's visit or phone call? Under what conditions are those records made public? What threshold of credibility must a complainant meet? What evidence must be given prior to the sending out of an investigator? What protections are in place so that any old sociopathic busybody can't just use this agency to harass and terrorize his or her neighbors? And if there are protections in place, were they used in this instance?
Finally, I would be very curious to figure out -- though I wouldn't ask this directly -- if a person making a complaint might be able to use specific knowledge of the agency and its personnel in order to cause an investigator to come out.
You know what else I would want to know? I would want to know what kind of academic background and credentials these people have, these people who are empowered to walk into some family's home and read off a list of anonymous accusations. Of all the powers of the state that are available to petty, misguided bureaucrats who might have just a touch of the sadistic and the power-hungry in them, this is one power that ought not be entrusted to just anybody. I'd want to know that anyone doing this job at least had an understanding of the limits on state power in a free society.
And I would want to know how often it can happen that a totally bogus complaint reaches this point. I'd want to know if they audit their activities to determine this. I would want to know if this agency had a higher incidence of such false complaints than other agencies.
And I'd say, well, if this is a public agency with public records, then the press has a right to see them.
And then once I'd learned all I could, I'd contact a reporter at the local newspaper.
I'd tell them my story.
I'd beg the reporter to at least call the agency and inquire about my case.
You wouldn't have to get the reporter to promise to do a story, just to make a phone call.
Come to think of it, the logic is sweet: In the same way that a child protective agency is more or less compelled to investigate any complaint, so a newspaper reporter is more or less compelled to at least make a phone call to check out a tip.
Now, I'm kind of dumb about small town life. It may be that doing these things would make life too uncomfortable for you. If so, I would still suggest that, in order to understand what happened, you learn as much as you can about the social forces in American life that could lead to such a thing. And if I were you I would think seriously about moving to a more cosmopolitan area.
Cary Tennis is Salon's advice columnist.